Adulthood Timeline

This was taken from the timeline I had started when I was at River Oaks. It starts where the other one ended.

Adulthood timeline:

1)  Mar 2013 – Moved to Indiana for 3 months

2) May 2013 – Started college at Grand Canyon University

3) May 2013 – Started work in childcare

4) May 2013 – Car accident – car totaled

5) June 2013 – Moved back to Greenville, SC

6) June 2013 – Moved in with 2 other ladies and started accumulating my own stuff

7) Aug 2013 – Got job at call center and childcare and started tutoring again

8) Aug 2013­ - Continued to deal with depression, self-harm and went off my meds

9) Sept 2013 – Moved into my 1st apartment

10) Worked 3 jobs for 14 months

11) Feb 2014 – Started new job at different childcare

12) Feb 2014 – Major car accident – car totaled

13) End of 2014 – Started seeing psychiatrist, trying different medications

14) Oct 2014 – Moved to different apartment

15) Nov 2014 – 2nd suicide attempt – no medical or psychiatric treatment

16) Dec 2014 – Psychiatrist sent me to ER – led to hospitalization

17) Dec 2014 to April 2015 – 8 psychiatric hospitalizations, ECT attempted

18) May 2015 – 3rd suicide attempt – ICU for 8 days

19)  May 2015 – Sent to state hospital

20) Jun/Jul 2015 – 2 more psychiatric hospitalizations

21) Aug 2015 – Approved for disability (SSDI)

22)  Oct 2015 – asked to leave NAMI

23) Oct 2015 – 4th suicide attempt – CO poisoning – Hospital for 3 days

24) Oct 2015 – Psychiatric hospitalization – court ordered to treatment

25) Oct 2015 – Started seeing therapist and psychiatrist at mental health center

26) Feb 2016 – Therapist goes on maternity leave, put with a therapist that I didn’t work well with temporarily

27) Mar 2016 – Stitches for self-harm for the first time

28) Mar 2016 – Psychiatric hospitalization

29) Mar/April 2016 – Harassment from apartment complex, Animal Control called

30) April 2016 – 5th suicide attempt – overdose

31) May 2016 – Therapist returns from maternity leave

32) Sept 2016 – Mom dies unexpectedly, forced to see family for the first time in 4 years

33) Oct 2016 – Moved to another apartment

34) Dec 2016 – Lost my therapist

35) Jan 2017 – Another suicide attempt – hanging

36) Jan 2017 – 2 psychiatric hospitalizations – ECT, hallucinations for the 1st time

37) Feb 2017 – Forced out of job because of mental illness

38) Mar 2017 – Dog dies

39) April 2017 – car accident, car repaired

40) April-May 2017 – 3 psychiatric hospitalizations – ECT tried again

41)  May 2017 – Suicide attempt – overdose

42) May – Aug 2017 – 2 more hospitalizations

43) Aug 2017 – 1st visit to River Oaks

44) Sept 2017 – home from River Oaks

a. Came home to apartment destroyed

b. Cat goes missing

c. Civil suit against lady who left my apartment a mess and lost my cat

45) Oct 2017 – Start work part-time at a childcare facility

46) Jan 2018 – Return to NAMI

47) Feb 2018 – Go back to work full-time

48) Mar 2018 – Lost position

49) April 2018 – Moved into house

50) May 2018 - House broken into

51) Jun 2018 – Trained as facilitator for NAMI

52) Aug 2018 – Started fostering kittens

53) Oct 2018 – Gallbladder removed

54) Nov 2018 – Hurt back at work, out for 2 months

55) Dec 2018 – Lose position at job due to work injury

56) Jan 2019 – Start new job

57) Feb 2019 – Lost position at job, went to part-time work

58) Mar 2019 – Roommate from hell moved in

59) Aug 2019 – Student teaching attempted and failed (due to uncooperative teacher)

60) Oct 2019 – Roommate kicked out and new one moves in

61) Oct 2019 – Student teaching started

62) Oct 2019 – Kicked out roommate from hell and new one moved in

63) Nov 2019 – Had to put cat down

64) Jan 2020 – First section of student teaching completed

65) Jan 2020 – Car accident, car totaled

66) Feb 2020 – Second section of student teaching started

67) Mar 2020 – COVID hit, school switched to online

68) April 2020 – Complete second section of student teaching

69) April 2020 – Graduate with Bachelor’s degree

70) April 2020 – Accepted to graduate school

71) May 2020 – Graduate school started

72) Aug 2020 – 1st semester of graduate school completed

73) Aug 2020 – Traumatic event – friend almost dies in my car on the way to the hospital

74) Aug 2020 – 1st psychiatric hospitalization in 3 years

75) Sept/Oct/Nov 2020 – 3 hospitalizations

76) Nov 2020 – Second hospitalization at River Oaks

77) Dec 2020 – Discharged and start PHP program

78) Jan 2021 – PHP/IOP

79) Feb 2021 – Returned to River Oaks (#3)

80) Mar 2021 – Returned home, roommate moved out

81) Mar 2021 – Car accident, car is totaled

82) April 2021 – Car purchased

83) April 2021 – return home from friend’s house

84) April 2021 – New roommate moves in

85) May 2021 – Start jobs at tutoring center and women’s shelter